“No matter how big a nation is, it is no stronger than its weakest people, and as long as you keep a person down, some part of you has to be down there to hold him down, so it means you cannot soar as you might otherwise.” —Marian Anderson, singer
Some questions I would like to ask a racist.
Who taught you racism, your mother, your father, someone else in your family?
Does it make you feel better when you step on others so that you look big?
Is your self-esteem so low that picking on the innocence’s?
What are you hiding about yourself that you don’t want others to know about?
Do you think being around LGBTQ will give you a disease?
You do know that were are all human, that we all have two arms and legs, etc.,?
Do you really believe that a black family moving into your neighborhood will cause land properties to go down?
So dear reader we must start treating each other as equals. We are not superior or inferior to others. We all want love, want to belong, to be understood. Yes, it is time to start, to start now!
“Pit race against race, religion against religion, prejudice against prejudice. Divide and conquer! We must not let that happen here.”
― Eleanor Roosevelt
There is a tug-of-war happening around the world sparked by a video showing a cop with his knee on a black man’s neck. In eight minutes, forty-six seconds George Floyd was dead.
On one end of the rope is some white people who are trying to pull the world backwards into one where they are superior. One white man especially doesn’t want America to move forward, he would rather go back to a time where Black people didn’t have any rights, an America where Black people were considered less than a human.
Now on the other end is a new generation tugging to bring the world into a world where all men are truly equal, no more, no less. These are the ones you see on the news channels marching in the streets all around the globe. Signs with “Black Lives Matter”, “Defund the Police”. In the multitudes there is a wide spectrum of people. Young, old, white, black, gay, straight, transgender, etc., are on a grass roots mission to bring the world into the twenty-one century.
So dear reader, if 2020 ends without any progress then all those voices crying for justice has been in vain!
“Understand that sexuality is as wide as the sea. Understand that your morality is not law. Understand that we are you. Understand that if we decide to have sex whether safe, safer, or unsafe, it is our decision and you have no rights in our lovemaking.”
― Derek Jarman
preconceived opinion that is not based on reason or actual experience.
“English prejudice against foreigners”
I have been giving this post a lot of thought over the past several days. I wanted the best quotes I could find about the subject. The first one is new to me, but, the second one is from the Senior Prime Minister Trudeau, which I learned about in high school.
I feel safe in saying that many of us have preconceived ideas about one thing or another. Where did we learn these things, from our parents, peers, school, reading, or television.
Imagine if our preconceived idea of seeing a man and woman holding hands was repulsive. Maybe denied insurance coverage for being a heterosexual being, or portrayed on tv shows as some type of freak. Now, how would you feel? Some would hide the fact of their sexuality, pretend to be gay, or just outright be proud of being heterosexual.
Now how would your mental health be doing? Over time not so good, thoughts of depression, inferiority feelings, to the point to where there is contemplation of suicide.
I believe I have described the life of a LGBTQ person over the past forty years. Here are some facts from Homewood Health
LGBTQ+ Mental Health Facts1:
Members of LGBTQ+ communities face higher rates of depression, anxiety, obsessive-compulsive and phobic disorders, suicidality, self-harm and substance use
Members of LGBTQ are twice as likely to experience childhood maltreatment, interpersonal; violence, and personal loss
The risk of post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) within the LGBTQ+ community is double that of those that identify as heterosexual
Sexual minority individuals are two and a half times more likely to attempt suicide and are one and a half times more likely to have depression and anxiety than heterosexual peers
LGBTQ+ youth face approximately 14 times the risk of suicide and substance abuse as heterosexual peers
Some research suggests that abuse of alcohol, tobacco and other substances may be two to four times higher among those that identify as LGBTQ
So dear reader, when you are thinking some preconceived idea about a person, persons, gender, think about this post!
“Mental illness is not something you misunderstand in this era. Get educated because bias is no different than racism.”
― Shannon L. Alder
Racism is a learned trait. Go to any school yard and you likely to find two little boys playing together. What is noticeable one will white the other African American. There is not one sign of racism between them.
“I hate racial discrimination most intensely and all its manifestations. I have fought all my life; I fight now, and will do so until the end of my days. Even although I now happen to be tried by one, whose opinion I hold in high esteem, I detest most.” Nelson Mandela
Growing up I was blessed to have two great examples of lives who were empty of racism, my mother, and my maternal grandmother. I always knew I could take my friends to either home without any racial remarks being made. My mother had two rules about our friends. First, she had to meet them, second was that she had their phone numbers. Never once did she tell us we couldn’t be friends with certain people.
I also grew up living with someone who was very racist, I call him Archie Bunker the second. He wouldn’t say much around my mother, but away from home he truly showed it.
Racism comes in all colors, backgrounds, and cultures. However, the upfront form of racism is towards black people. Things looked like they were going to be different because of the Civil Rights Act in 1964.
Lyndon Johnson Signs Civil Rights Act of 1964. The Civil Rights Act of 1964, the most sweeping civil rights legislation since Reconstruction, prohibited racial discrimination in employment and education, and outlawed segregation in public facilities. from History.com
The next group that has suffered racism is the Gay community. For years homosexuality was defined as a mental illness. It was finally removed from the Mental Health illness list.
…theAmerican Psychiatric Association (APA) — the largest psychiatric organization in the world — made history byissuing a resolutionstating that homosexuality was not a mental illness or sickness. This declaration helped shift public opinion, marking a major milestone for LGBTQ equality.
For years they fought for the same civil rights that every heterosexual couple had, marriage. On June 27, 2015 The Supreme Court ruled that Gay couples could now be legally married in all fifty states of America.
The US Supreme Court has ruled that same-sex marriage is a legal right across the United States. from BBC.com
If we ever reach a point to eradicate racism throughout every country people must come together and learn about each other, understand each other.
I have in my life experience first hand how First Nations people live, their hopes, their dreams, and their struggles. I lived on a First Nations reserve, served with a Pastor who was a First Nation person. On the books of a town near where I was raised had a law that a First Nation person could not stay overnight. For years it was illegal to sell alcohol beverages to First Nation people. All of this happened on Canadian soil.
So dear reader, let’s make an honest effort to end racism before this century is over! Change must start now!
“When all Americans are treated as equal, no matter who they are or whom they love, we are all more free.”–Barack Obama
*** This is not a post to bash, humiliate, judge, deride. It is not a sermon to discuss right or wrong. So, it is my hope that you will not just click to the next post on your reading list.***
June is Pride Month
Gay pride truly started way back in 1969 at Stonewall In. The gay people grew tired of the persecution from the authorities, their raids on them which were very frequent. This frustration boiled over and the gay community decided to fight back, this lasted for three days. Bystanders were heard calling out “Gay Power”, someone started to sing “We Shall Overcome”.
The fight drew more people to gather to see what the commotion was about. People were also heard shouts of “Fagot cops”, “Pigs”. This was the beginning of the coming together of the gay people.
In 1973 the American Psychiatric Association removed homosexual from the list of mental illnesses.
In 2014 the United States Supreme Court struck down all of the bans for gay marriage. It then was legalized.
The are many lessons that can be gleaned from this movement here is what I think:
Anything worth having is worth fighting for
We are all part of the same race, the human race
We all have a inner desire to love and be loved
Name calling and shaming needs to stop
We may disagree with something but they may also disagree with you
So dear reader, I want to raise a salute to all those who paved the way through the years for the freedom of LGBTQ community!